Dating trans women, honestly.
Guides and stories written by me — how to find, approach and date trans women with respect, and what I wish more men knew.
How to Talk to a Trans Girl: A Guide to Respectful Communication
How to talk to a trans girl with respect: names and pronouns, what to ask and what to leave alone. Advice from Luly Brazil, a trans woman in London.
Read articlePreparing for Intimacy with a Trans Woman: A Transwoman's Inclusive Guide
How to prepare for intimacy with a trans woman: talking first, hygiene, douching, condoms and the moments after. A practical guide from a trans woman in London.
Read articleTrans People Dating Sites in the UK: Finding Love and Connection
The dating apps I'd recommend in 2026 for meeting trans women in the UK, from Taimi and Feeld to Hinge, with tips from a trans woman in London.
Read articleIs It Your First Time with a Trans Woman?
First date with a trans woman? Advice from me, a Brazilian trans woman in London, on what to say, what not to ask and how to make the evening easy.
Read articleAm I Gay if I Date a Trans Woman?
Men ask me this all the time. My answer, as a straight trans woman in London: a man who is attracted to a woman is a straight man.
Read articleFinding Transgender Women in Your Area: A Transwoman's Guide
Where to meet trans women near you, online and in person, and how to approach them without making it awkward. Advice from a trans woman in London.
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