I updated this list in November 2026. Apps change fast, and these are the ones worth your time right now.
Before the list, one piece of advice. Use real photos and say clearly what you are looking for. Trans women deal with a lot of fake profiles and with men who disappear after two messages, so an honest profile already puts you ahead.
Taimi
Taimi is made for LGBTQ+ people, so many trans women use it. You can show on your profile that you want to meet trans women, and you match with people who want the same.
Feeld
Feeld started in London and is popular with open-minded singles and couples. It has many gender options, trans women included, and it suits men who want to be upfront about what they like.
Hinge
Hinge is the app for people who want something serious. Trans women can show their gender on the profile, and the questions on each profile make it easier to start a real conversation.
OkCupid
OkCupid was one of the first big apps to offer many gender identities. Its long questionnaire helps you find someone who thinks the way you do.
Tinder
Tinder has a huge number of users, which means more trans women near you and also more noise. Read the profile properly before you swipe.
Grindr
Grindr is mainly for gay and bi men, but many trans women use it too, and it has gender options on the profile. Conversations there move fast and are usually direct.
Sites only for trans dating
TransgenderDate and My Transgender Cupid are made for trans women and the men who want to date them. They are smaller than the big apps, and everyone on them knows why they are there.
A few rules on any app
Don't open with a question about her body. Don't ask for more photos before you have had a real conversation. If her profile says she is trans, she has already answered the question you were about to ask.
If you would rather skip the apps and meet a trans woman in London for dinner, a show or a party, send me a message.
Brazilian trans woman living in London. I write about dating, respect and real experiences.